Christmas With Teens: 11 Special Ways to Bond Over The Holidays!

by Melanie Studer

09/17/2021

Christmas with teens can be great!

Christmas with teens is the best!

Christmas with teens can be special, so make plans that they want to be a part of! This is my favorite time of the year with my kids. Your time is limited, so it’s fun to make use of it in all the ways that your kids love.

 

This GIF cracks me up!🤣

Before the break begins

Before the season even begins, be sure that you set up a budget so that you don’t overspend. I am a big fan of “less is more”, and with teens they are just looking for comfort, food, and fun. Let’s get started!

If your teens are away at college, then they will be going through their finals season. Send them a fun care package to get them through these stressful days. My friend Laura over at almostemptynest.net has great ideas for winter care packages.

Laura also has a template for planning your entire holiday on an app called Airtable -it is amazing, and super helpful, and FREE!

Set up expectations

Some of your older teens will be  coming home from college or elsewhere. You might need to set up some expectations. Here is a great post by my friend Miranda over at thereluctantcowgirl.com about how to survive and connect with your teens over winter break.

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Christmas with teens can be so fun!

Decorating

My teens loved to decorate! We always made a big deal about it right after Thanksgiving, and played music to set the mood. They each used to have a tree in ther rooms, but over time, they decided against those. Start this tradition with your teens, and end the day with a favorite meal or dessert to thank them for their help.

Simple ideas for Christmas decor throughout your house from plaidsandpoppies.com

Front porch decor from nikkisplate.com

Setting a holiday table by freshexchange.com

Easy decorations for cabinets -you could do almost anything! I do my pantry doors and clip our Christmas cards onto it. Very festive! from b4andafters.com

Ideas for bedrooms at Christmas from ladydecluttered.com

Recipes

I tried to find complilations of easy recipes!

30 easy appetizers -my boys love “snacky” dinners from playpartyplan.com

21 casseroles to accompany your main dishes -from crispyfoodidea.com

Simple and festive main dish recipes -you had me at simple! from 31daily.com

24 cookie recipes – try a new type of cookie this year! from cravingsomecreativity.com

Snowman pretzels – so many variations – by b4andafters.com

Traditions

Tradition:  1. : the handing down of information, beliefs, or customs from one generation to another. 2. : a belief or custom handed down from one generation to another. tradition. noun. (dictionary.com)

Hold onto the traditions that mean the most to each of you, and let go of the others to make room for new ones! Have fun. I talk about this in my YouTube video.

Here’s a fun tradition that I hadn’t heard of. Christmas Eve boxes. My kids always got new pajamas to wear, and a new game for the family to share. I might have to try one of these box ideas this from moneyprodigy.com

Build a gingerbread house  -from akpalkitchen.com -I will have to find a picture of one of our boys’ creations from the past! Here are some kits that would be fun to build!

Here’s another fun tradition -from cleanmama.com Have  basket of books for each major holiday. I have done this, and each year I would purchase one or two new books to add to the basket.

Crafts/Hobbies

Use this down time for your teens to find something new for them to try or continue with their love of creation. So many hobbies are relaxing, and this will go a long way to their decompression after a hectic semester.

 20+ Sharpie crafts that are perfect for the holidays from happinessishomemade.net

Washi tape crafts for the entire family from sloely.com

Lots of DIY ornaments to craft from buzzfeed.com

String star ornaments -so cute from eytozee.com

Scrap fabric Christmas tree ornaments from firefliesandmudpies.com

Games

Game night is such a fun way to connect with your teens.

12 games to play virtually if you are not together by christmasphere.com

Guess Who (Christmas version) by kidfriendlythingstodo.com

Holiday Jeopardy from allthepartyideas.com

Saranwrap candy ball -this is really fun- from momluck.com

‘Tis the Season Trivia game -we love this! I just keep it on our table during the holidays to spark conversation😀

 10+ games to play with your teen -all different kinds of games included in this post from parentinghighschoolers.com

Movies

Here are some ideas for setting up a fun family movie night… from healthyhappyimpactful.com

Here’s a post with more than 50 movies for Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas. Checklists included for keeping track of the ones that you have watched.

Holiday Bingo for Hallmark Christmas movies -such a fun idea!

Activities

25 Days for a Teenage Christmas -ways to enjoy the holidays with your teens🎄

Stained Glass Adult Coloring Book -for relaxing in front of a fire or good movie!

Putting together gift baskets for neighbors, friends, and other people can be a great family activity. Shannon at skiptomylife.com has some great ideas for this from the dollar store!

A great activity for giving back are these feed the hungry stocking packs -from 5littlemonsters.com The family that serves together, stays together! Or make these sock packages for the homeless from penniesoftime.com -these are such a great idea.

Binge watch a series as a family! We LOVED Schitt’s Creek, but this post gives other ideas as well. Plus, the post has lots of gift ideas if you know someone who loves SC!

Work on a holiday puzzle -we always have one set up on a side table in our sunroom for the holidays, and we all work on it at different times while watching movies.

Holiday scavenger hunt -we have done this before with our dinner club, and had so much fun!

Books

Here are a couple of books that will help you during this season.

Have Yourself a Minimalist Christmas

A Christmas Memory Book

The Little Book of Hygge: Danish Secrets to Happy Living -If you have not heard of this, there are so many ideas for comfort. And, what is Christmas if not comfort?

Gifts

The posts below are from my blog. They are all updated often during the year. I have vetted the gift lists with a number of teens and their families over the years as I have continued to add posts, ideas and update them. I hope that these are helpful in your search for the perfect gifts!

Gifts for teen gals

Gifts for teen guys

Gifts for mom

Gifts for dad

Best family games

Stocking stuffers

Have a December graduate?

Gifts for 18 year old – This post is about all sorts of things regarding a teen turning 18, but there are gift ideas at the bottom of the post.

Christmas with teens can be such a fun time. Be sure to do your prep work. Talk with them ahead of time to make sure that any plans that you make are something they like to do or that they know is one of your non-negotiables. Relax. Do as much ahead of time as possible. Enjoy!

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Christmas with teens can be so fun!

 

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7 Comments

  1. I have so many tabs open! Thank you for sharing all of these resources for Christmas fun with teens.

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    • I know, right?! It was a really fun to think about and research fun ideas for this upcoming time of the year😀

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    • That is the best compliment! I am glad that you liked it, and I hope that you were able to get your thoughts rolling towards the holidays🎄

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  2. Great ideas! Thank you for sharing them all!

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    • You are welcome! I love all holidays, and especially the ones that my kids are all home for:)

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  3. Great post! So many ideas. Pinned

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    • Thank you! Heaven forbid that you run out of things to do!

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